What keeps us from
flowing with life

Video 7, Part 1 - The Mastery of Life Video Course



Every area of life that isn't working is an area where we are fighting the truth of the way something is. So why do we fight the truth? We fight the truth because it hurts. The truth strikes a nerve. This is why different people get upset at different things. Each person has a different set of nerves that get triggered.

These nerves are the childhood hurt of feeling worthless, not good enough, not worth loving, failure, or some other form of feeling “not okay.? It’s never the truth that we are this way, it's just an old hurt, but it's a hurt that runs our lives. Every area of life that doesn't work and every self-sabotaging behavior pattern can be traced directly to the automatic, subconscious avoidance of this hurt. Fortunately, this is a hurt that can be healed.


  1. Notice the hurt that keeps you from flowing with life
    On the surface, we fight and resist certain circumstances, but at a deeper level, we don’t fight the circumstances. We fight the suppressed emotion that gets triggered by our circumstances. Look at the areas of your life that don’t work and the times you have been upset. Then notice the hurt that’s being triggered.
  2. Find the specific hurt that you are avoiding
    Ultimately, the hurt that we avoid is the childhood hurt of feeling worthless, not good enough, not worth loving, a failure, or some other form of feeling not okay. It’s never the truth, it’s just an emotion, but it’s an emotion that we will do almost anything to avoid feeling. To find this hurt, look for the works of “not okay? that hurt the most. Remember, you are not looking for the truth. You are looking for an emotion. See if you can identify this hurt.
  3. Heal this destructive hurt
    Every relationship and every area of your life that isn’t working is an area where this hurt is getting triggered. The automatic avoidance of this hurt creates a state of fear, upset and tunnel vision. It keeps you from finding solutions and seeing what works. It destroys love and forces destructive behavior. Finding and healing this hurt is one of the most important things you can ever do. Use this video course to learn how.


These videos provide an awareness that will change your life. When you work with the material over time, you get grounded in the concepts and change your life even more. This is the purpose of the Mastery of Life E-course. Each week you receive a powerful new insight with suggested action to take. There is no charge for the course.

If you get struck or have an area of life that isn’t working, give Bill Ferguson a call. He can give you the tools, the direction, and the individual support you need to handle this area of your life. Learn more.

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