How to Heal a Painful Relationship

Available in paperback, e-books, and audio


This book was featured on Oprah. It shows step-by-step how to end conflict, heal hurt & restore love in any relationship.

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Any relationship can heal. No matter how painful or destructive a relationship may be, it can be restored. Sound impossible? It’s not. Anger and resentment can be replaced with forgiveness and compassion. Conflict can turn into cooperation.

Oprah was so moved by this book, she featured it on one of her shows. This powerful book shows, step by step, how to end conflict, heal hurt, and restore love in any relationship.

This is possible because all the things that we think are the problem are not the problem. They are the symptom. Once you discover the underlying condition that destroys love and forces destructive behavior, you can do something about it.

As you heal inside and change the way you interact with the other person, you change how that person responds to you. By growing in your awareness, you change what happens in your relationship.

Bill Ferguson's experience as a former divorce attorney provides rare insight into the nature of relationships. In this book, you will learn something about yourself and your relationships that will change your life forever.

Read Chapter 1 - What you do now makes the difference

In this book, you will learn how to:

  • Heal any relationship
  • End the cycle of conflict
  • Heal your hurt
  • Be free of guilt, anger and resentment
  • Resolve disputes
  • Communicate effectively
  • Restore love, one human to another
  • If necessary, part as friends

Table of Contents

  1. What you do now makes the difference
  2. Put the focus on having your relationship work
  3. Acknowledge the love that's there
  4. Don't hang on; let your partner go
  5. Create the experience of love
  6. Let the other person be the way he or she is
  7. Heal your hurt
  8. Find the inner issues that destroy love
  9. Forgive: let go of your resentments
  1. Accept your 100% responsibility
  2. Forgive yourself
  3. End the cycle of conflict
  4. Remove the distance
  5. Release the other person's upsets
  6. Be willing to flow
  7. Resolve issues without conflict
  8. Have your attorney work for you
  9. It's Up to You


E-books purchased on this site are in a PDF format. Audio books are in a MP3 format.
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Do you have a painful relationship?

Do you have a painful relationship or an area of life that isn’t working? Would you like to have this area of your life clear up? You can. The best way to do this is to work directly with Bill Ferguson. You can also attend our weekend workshop, Return To The Heart. Give us a call. We can talk about your situation and create a plan of action.


Free e-course

You can heal your relationships and create a great life, but you have to know how. Both the video course and the free e-course walk you through the steps. As you work with the lessons, you change your life.