Have love in all your relationships

Video 8, Part 1 - The Mastery of Life Video Course

 
 

VIDEO SUMMARY

Love is never enough to have a relationship work. To have a relationship be great, you need to make sure the other person feels loved. You create the experience of love by giving acceptance and appreciation. You destroy it by being non-accepting, judgmental and critical. Every time you interact with someone, you will either create love or destroy love and whatever you give will come right back.

Accepting someone may seem difficult, but fortunately, accepting is nothing more than surrendering to the truth of the way the person is. It doesn’t mean that you like it or that you have to stand by and do nothing. Surrendering to the truth is the inner action that restores your ability to see the truth. When you can see the truth, you can see what you need to do, and you can do it in a way that creates an environment of love.

ACTION TO TAKE

  1. Notice how you feel when someone genuinely accepts and appreciates you
    Notice how great this feels. Then notice how you automatically become accepting and appreciative in return. Now notice how you feel when someone is critical of you. Notice how you automatically become defensive and critical in return. Others react in the same way. Every time you interact with someone, you will either create love or destroy it, and whatever you give will come right back. Look in your life and see that this is true.
  2. Make a list of every relationship you have that isn't working
    Notice how judgmental and critical you have been of each person on your list. Notice how your actions have hurt the other person and how that person has given it back to you. Then notice how you got more upset at the other person. Then the other person got more upset at you. This cycle of conflict is like a tennis volley. It takes two people to keep it going. It only takes one person to end it. Find the cycle of conflict in each relationship on your list.
  3. Surrender to the truth
    The people in your life are the way they are whether you like it or not. Acceptance is nothing more than surrendering to the truth. When you surrender to the truth, you can see what you need to do. You can then take whatever action you need to have your life be great and you can do it in a way that creates love. It is possible to end conflict and restore love in all your relationships. Use this video course to learn how.

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